It's really lonely when you get involved with someone who has very specific expectations. When you don't meet them, you kind of feel like you aren't even there; you aren't being seen. I try to view people objectively, get to know them as they truly are. It seems this can make me appear cold to the one with the expectations. I think it makes me appear fair.
Of course, I have been the one with the expectations and it's lonely there, also. It too, can make you feel as if you aren't even there; you aren't seeing your reflection. It takes two people viewing objectively to make a real connection happen.
The true meeting of two souls, even for the flash of an instant, is a rare treasure, not to be taken for granted.
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